100 Questions Before Marriage
Do you know what you absolutely must know about the one you are with? My friend, I am talking about your partner. It can be 'he', in case you are woman and 'she', in case you are a man. How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the similar type of foods, hobbies and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, hearty, long-term relationship.
Do you know why your life partner does or doesn't attend family church? Do you know how she or he really think about the way you dress? Have you ever asked your partner what are the three most sensitive parts on their body? Now a days, all we are living a "mechanical" life or "robotic" life where there is no time for anything. Such a life leads to more negative situation like suspicion within life partners, lack of communication between family members especially partners themselves. Eventually, the situation will develop hatred between the partners. Their happiness will vanish and quarrels will be 'daily routines'. All of a sudden their family members especially the children will be the worst hit by clash between their parents.
A recent social survey point out that, "an estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions". What are the 'right' questions to ask for? How and when to ask them? What could be the answer? These are the 'basic' questions you've forgotten to ask your life partner when she/he entered your life. They are the questions, you are not asking even now to your partner. The basic questions are divided into various categories like her/his personality, feelings, emotions, favorites, attractions, pets, health, hobbies etc. Have you ever asked your partner what his/her personality is? Whether she/he is short-tempered or Calm, How he/she feels when she/he is with you? Do you know what are his/her attractions and hobbies? These are the 'basic' questions you have omitted to ask. Several months ago, a friend of mine discovered that her husband was once a heroin addict. When she asked him why he didn't tell her before, he replied, "You never asked!"
I hope, you now realise the importance of communication between partners. Communication if not properly applied will destroy your happy relationship.
100 Questions Before Marriage
Thursday, November 5, 2009
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